Consultation on the Children (Abolition of Defence of Reasonable Punishment) (Wales) Bill
Tystiolaeth i’r Pwyllgor Plant, Pobl Ifanc ac Addysg ar gyfer craffu Cyfnod 1 Bil Plant (Diddymu Amddiffyniad Cosb Resymol) (Cymru) |
Evidence submitted to the Children, Young People and Education Committee for Stage 1 scrutiny of the Children (Abolition of Defence of Reasonable Punishment) (Wales) Bill |
CADRP-470 |
CADRP-470 |
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— No
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As a parent I believe that the final responsibility for the discipline of my children, which may in certain situations include smacking, lies with the Parents.
This proposed bill confuses child abuse, with reasonable chastisement. This is a glaring and alarming confusion.
I write as a father with two grown up children who now have children of their own. When our children were younger we sought to create a loving environment which included lots of hugs, kisses and positive affirmation of our children. We also told them that certain behaviors were not acceptable i.e. not sharing toys, hitting siblings etc. We explained that punishment at various levels would follow disobedience. When as young children their behavior crossed that line they knew that discipline would be exercised. The process, of which they were aware, was first; warnings to behave or desist from wrong behavior, second; the withdrawal of privileges, third and as a last resort came a short smack. Following the exercise of any of those disciplines there would be hugs and kisses. We always assured them of our love for them but not the behavior they had manifested. Today I am proud of my two grown up children and their own young families. They are well grounded individuals holding responsible jobs that benefit and support the wider community.
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No because we already have legislation to prevent child abuse i.e. section 58 of the children Act 204. Under this legislation a step dad was successfully prosecuted for smacking his 4yr old daughter too hard. He admitted his wrong and received the appropriate punishment. Therefore I believe that the necessary safeguards are already in place.
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No
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No comment.
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Yes, I fear for the unintended consequences i.e. this proposed bill will:
1 criminalise those with good parenting skills.
2. Ignores public opinion i.e.one survey reveals that 76% of those questioned have said 'No' to making parental smacking a criminal offence.
3. Raise the real possibility of overwhelming the police and social services with what will be trivial cases.
4 Damages young people in the longer term as evidenced by the experience of the Swedish legislature of 1979. Current data monitoring the effects reveals that their smacking ban has resulted in child on child violence, (a 1,791% increase). Psychiatrist David Eberhard argues that it has left parents unable to correct their children in any way. This in turn has led to the breakdown of discipline in schools, falling grades, a rise in anxiety disorders among teens with a link to suicide attempts.
New Zealand found that a ban as proposed here has led to parents being criminalised. It beggars belief that with such evidence this bill should still be going before the Welsh assembly.
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Implementing this proposed Bill will divert finances from more pressing & obvious needs.
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Only to underline my earlier comments as stated in Q1:1 describing the parental discipline exercised by my wife and I.